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Looking for a LTR

I'm looking for a long term relationship with someone. I'm pretty open and easy going. I really just want someone to get to know and have fun with. Caring loving nerd. Highly kinky. Message anytime.

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I guess I'll start with how I got into this whole thing. When I was much younger I felt secretly excited when I saw a heroine captured by the bad guys. Usually it would be some lame cartoon or children's program or something. As time went on, I began to have more and more fantasies especially as I hit puberty. I thought it was just me and then I found the internet. I guess I wasn't alone after all. There were hundreds of sites that had heroines kept against their will, either chained or tied and it began to really excite me. I kept this away from my parents and my friends I was completely embarrassed.

I started doing self bondage to myself around this time. When it first started it was pretty light but over the years I added more and more. I also began to like other fetishes...some of my favorites are scarves, boots, french maids, nurses, nuns, chastity devices, and masks.

Anyways, I had a few experiences in the last few years as a dom. Which I did enjoy for sure, however, I miss being the submissive. When I do it to myself I play both parts and that was really fun. At this point in my life I'd rather be a submissive to a dom. I have sort of low self confidence and it makes me feel a lot more confident to know that a beautiful woman would accept me and love me enough to be her personal possession. So here I am.

When I'm not kinky, I like to play video games, read books, do art, read comics, take walks, travel a little, try new things, play guitar, write songs, and I really enjoy trying new things. I love sushi and pizza. My favorite color is probably black. If there's anything else anyone wants to know definitely message me. I'd love just to have long distance friends to talk to:)

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CBT Preferences

I prefer:Depends on my partner
Things I enjoy:Slapping, Squeezing, Pinching, Weights/Parachutes, Stretching, Stroking
Toys I like to use:Testicle cuffs
Orgasm during play:Depends on playmate

Appearance

EthnicityCaucasian / White
National heritageAmerican
BuildAverage
Height168 cm
Eye ColorBlue
Hair ColorLight brown
Hair LengthShort
Facial HairShaved
Best featureSmile
Health ConditionNo special condition
Endowment (length)Average
Endowment (width)Average
CircumcisedYes
My AttractivenessAverage

Situation

Relationship StatusSingle
Has childrenNo children
Wants kidsNot sure
Housing SituationFriends come over occasionally
Living ArrangementsAlone
Wants to RelocateYes
AvailabilityAnytime / Anyplace
Has a carYes

Education & Employment

EducationUniversity Bachelors
SpecialtyArt / Music / Literature
Employment StatusFull-time
Annual income$25,000 - $50,000
Job Titletech analyst

Looking For

I prefer:Intelligence, Humor, Empathy, Sensitivity, Thoughtfulness
My perfect matchI guess they're out there. I really haven't had great luck because a lot of girls I have relationships with aren't into kinky stuff. I'd say someone who's a little bit of a nerd and can push me and support me into being a better and more successful person.
Our first dateEither a coffee shop or maybe some dinner? It really just depends on what our interests are. I would be fine with meeting up at a bookstore or seeing a movie too. I don't mind texting or calling first for a while.

BDSM Preferences

I'm turned on byA combination of all, Bondage / Discipline (B&D), Domination / Submission (D&S)
My role isSubmissive
I am seekingA lifetime relationship (LTR)
I live the lifestyle24/7
Experience levelIntermediate
I enjoyBiting, body worship, Bondage, Breast / nipple torture, Candle wax, Chastity devices, CBT (cock & ball torture), Collar & lead / leash, Confinement / caging, Cross dressing, Depilation / shaving, Electro torture, Femdom, Foot / shoe worship, Hair pulling, Hot wax, Kidnapping, Mummification, Physical humiliation, Power exchange, Sensory deprivation, Spanking, Suspension, Whipping
Open To Photos & VideosDepends on the partner
My most pleasurable encounter wasIt really depends on the partner on activities...I'd like to try stuff for sure. I've never actually subbed before. I've dommed a few times and it was fun but I never felt comfortable with it really.

Fetishes

FetishesCrossdressing, High Heels, Lace / Lingerie, Medical / Enema, Pantyhose / Stockings, Shoes / Boots

Sexual Activities

I enjoy sex:Rarely, so I'm looking!
Sex isAwesome but not a priority
Most partners at once:Only one on one
Dirty talkDepends on my mood

Sexual Interests

Oral Sex isIt's OK, but I prefer penetration
Anal sex isFun sometimes
Sex toys:All of the above and more!
Size matterNo, Not at all
"Off Limits":Anything involving blood or poop.

Sexual Fantasies

Fantasy sex partner:Someone who's a real person. That would be cool. Is there anyone around this area at all? I'm actually a pretty big nerd outside of the kink too so that would be a plus if I could find another nerd.

Spanking Preferences

Role:I prefer being spanked
Use safety words:Always
Turns me on:Be scolded and told that I've been bad, Being sent to a room to wait, The Closure / Forgiveness, Being Told to Remove Pants, Being Told to Assume the Position, Being Told to Fetch the Implement, Be surprised and taken without any warning
I like to wear:I'm more into being dominated and tied up over being spanked. I like being spanked though because it makes you feel like you're under someone else's control. It's kind of cute in a weird way.
Positions:OTK - Over the knee, Lying face down, Over a chair / bed / desk, Hands bracing ankles or knees, Over the masters lap, Head or waist between legs, Kneeling on something with hands on floor, Bent under the arm, Lying on back with legs raised towards chest, Handcuffed to bed, Tied to doorway, Tied to something outside in a safe area, Legs in splits position
Implement:Hand, Cane, Riding Crop, Switch (rod), Birch, Gloves, Rulers / Martinet, Hairbrush, Belt
Pain level:Light Marks

Femdom Preferences

Intensity level:Depends on my mood
I'm seeking:Long Term relationships with play
Desired Persona:Changes with my partners
Ideal session:My ideal session would involve ultimately whatever she would choose to do to me.

I would like to think this would involve her tying me up very, very well. I love shibari and extreme ropework. I also love to be blindfolded and gagged. Unable to speak or see what my Mistress has planned. I would like to be paddled, whipped and flogged. Her every breath and touch would be like sudden ecstasy. I would like her to control my every orgasm and to keep me in chastity until she wishes it. It would please me even if she would like to practice pegging. I love to be controlled through her words and by her presence.
Ultimate femdom fantasy:I think being at the feet of my partner and being there for whatever she needs me to be that night. If I've made her happy then that's my greatest fantasy really.

Foot Fetish Preferences

My fetish role:Sub - Sucking toes & feet
Relationship:Private foot & toe play
My interests:Tickling, Forced foot worship, Sensual foot worship, Feet in nylons, Bare feet, High Heels, Boots, Foot massage, Toe sucking, Foot licking, Socks, Foot servitude
Foot size:Large 9-10
Foot size:Medium 7-8
My foot turn ons:That's a hard question to answer. ...
My turnoffs:Most feet probably look pretty good. There's a rare case where there may be ugly feet around. That would be a turnoff.