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i am a mature,attached,total submissive seeking a local Dominant woman for a discreet long term affair,where i would service her a few times per week

Most people I know would say that I am fun to be around. I have a good sense of humor and do not take myself too seriously. I am well educated and able to converse on most any topic.,
I believe that women are the superior gender and should always be obeyed. My wife is not interested in sex any more because of health issues.

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Public Sex preferences

Favorite public sex places:The woods or at the beach
The riskiest place I've had a sexual encounter:in a parking lot in the middle of the afternoon,with people coming and going.We still did not get caught. lol

Appearance

EthnicityCaucasian / White
National heritageGerman
BuildStocky
Height168 cm
Eye ColorHazel
Hair ColorSalt and pepper
Hair LengthShort
Facial HairNone
Best featureSmile
Body ArtVisible tattoo
Health ConditionNo special condition
Endowment (length)Average
Endowment (width)Average
CircumcisedYes
My AttractivenessBelow average

Situation

Relationship StatusMarried
Has childrenChildren don't live with me
Wants kidsNo
Housing SituationFriends come over occasionally
Living ArrangementsWith roomate(s)
Wants to RelocateNo
AvailabilityDiscreetly
Has a carYes

Education & Employment

EducationUniversity Doctorate
SpecialtyLegal
Employment StatusRetired
Annual income$100,000 - $250,000
Job TitleRetired Atty.

Looking For

I prefer:Intelligence, Humor, Great skills, Empathy, Sensitivity, Power, Wit, Thoughtfulness
My perfect matchA woman who lives nearby. A woman who knows what she wants and how to get it.A woman who expects obedience from her sub.A woman who is not afraid to explore BDSM as a Dominant.She should have a good sense of humor and a sensitivity. She should understand the importance of aftercare,,
Our first dateI suppose we would meet in a public place to chat and find out a little bit about each other.We could share a cup of coffee or maybe a lunch. Anything else would be completely up to her. I will follow her directions completely.

BDSM Preferences

I'm turned on byA combination of all, Bondage / Discipline (B&D)
My role isSubmissive
I am seekingA mistress
I live the lifestyleEvery once in a while
Experience levelIntermediate
I enjoyBondage, Chastity devices, Collar & lead / leash, Cross dressing, Electro torture, Femdom, Power exchange, Spanking, Whipping
Open To Photos & VideosDepends on the partner
My most pleasurable encounter wasThat i hope is yet to come.

Fetishes

FetishesCrossdressing, Panty, ring, Other

Sexual Activities

I enjoy sex:Rarely, so I'm looking!
Sex isAlways on my mind
Most partners at once:Threesome M/M/F
Dirty talkDepends on the person
Night life:Don't like going out

Sexual Interests

CybersexNo, I need the real thing
Oral Sex isMy favorite
Anal sex isLove ass play, but not penetration
Sex toys:Anal beads, Ben Wa balls, Clitoral stimulator, Cock ring, Dildos/Vibrators, Pocket pussy, Vibrating eggs/bullets, Vibrating panties
Size matterNo, Not at all
"Off Limits":unfortunately,because of abdominal surgery,i can no longer be penetrated,children,animals,blood needles,cbt

Spanking Preferences

Kind of spanking:Dominant / Submissive Spanking
Role:I prefer being spanked
Use safety words:Always
Turns me on:I'm always in the mood
I like to wear:i love a queening stool or lock box
Include sex and orgasm:Depends on my partner
Positions:OTK - Over the knee, Lying face down, Over a chair / bed / desk, Over the masters lap, Kneeling on something with hands on floor, Bent under the arm, Handcuffed to bed, Tied to something outside in a safe area
Implement:Hand, Cane, Riding Crop, Switch (rod), Rulers / Martinet, Hairbrush, Belt, Wooden Spoon, Tawse
Response:Resistance
Pain level:Heavy Marks