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I am a 48 yr old CD/TV recently got it together to start going out & so far so good. Sub/sissy is learning to be a big gurl in the real world and benefit from a firm hand and short leash to keep her on the right path. Looking for more than a one nighter, hoping for more, much more...

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My Public Sex preferences

What's your favorite public sex places?Shopping malls do it for me but not in the way you might think. I get off on public humiliation and there is no better place than a mall. However if you're talking about sex... actual in and out, up and down sex? It's not me, never has been. I love pleasing whoever I am with, I get great pleasure form it, so if you're the selfish type then we would be a good match. On the flip side, if you are one who enjoys a quickie in a department store changing room, i'm not the one for you (unless one of us brought a strap-on).
Describe the riskiest place you have had a sexual encounter?Many years ago in one the Nottingham shopping precincts, in an attempt to live out a particular fantasy in which I have to walk through the mall, I have no trousers or jeans on and everyone can plainly see that my underwear ise not that of a grown man, it would be more appropriate on a 3 year old girl. Everyone can see white frills on the pink plastic rhumba pants, the plastic stretched to its limit as it covers the multiple layers of nappies / diapers beneath. I had arranged for a friend to "steal" my trousers from a store dressing room, leaving me no choice but to put myself there and endure the humiliation from the laughing and jeering passers =by. On reflection, it could have gone horribly wrong, True story, I have tried to live my fantasies, I still do.


Facial HairNone
Best featureLegs
Body ArtScarred, Strategically placed tattoo, Visible tattoo
Health ConditionNo special condition
Endowment (length)Average
Endowment (width)Average
My attractiveness:Average


Relationship StatusSingle
Has childrenNo children
Housing SituationFriends come over occasionally
Living ArrangementsAlone
AvailabilityAnytime / Anyplace
Has a carYes

Looking For

Must haveIntelligence, Humor, Sensitivity, Wit, Thoughtfullness
My perfect matchthe one I would want to call my best friend... Our sense of humour would need to gel, there would be a lot of laughing... about anything and everything, I love laughing.Our relationship is never going to be "normal" i don't know about you but I;m way too fucked up to do normal. I accept that and know my shortcomings. I am not here to judge or be judged, we are who we are and if we find the one that fits, we win, My perfect match will be someone I grow old disgracefully with.
Our first dateWine... Good wine on a dinner date should bring the conversation comfortably to tonight's chosen subject. We will laugh about past exploits, perhaps throw each other a couple of subtle tests to watch responses. followed by more laughing.. I would not expect to end the night locked in a cage in some dungeon. Things would have to have been electric for that to happen.

BDSM Preferences

I'm turned on byA combination of all
My role isSubmissive
I live the lifestyle24/7
Experience levelIntermediate
I enjoyBondage, Chastity devices, CBT (cock & ball torture), Cross dressing, Electro torture, Femdom, Genital torture, Mummification, Physical humiliation, Verbal humiliation
Open To Photos & VideosDepends on the partner
My most pleasurable encounter wasA long time ago, I hooked up with Jo. We met through a mutual friend and immediately hit it off, on our first night together, I decided to take the plunge and let her know from the start i preferred wearing panties to boxers and was submissive in the bed


FetishesCrossdressing, Cuckolding, Exhibitionism, High Heels, Lace / Lingerie, Medical / Enema, Panty, Pantyhose / Stockings, Shoes / Boots, Smoking, Smothering, Other

Sexual Activities

I enjoy sex:I don't really care for sex
Sex isNot that important I'd rather cuddle
Most partners at once:Threesome M/M/F
Dirty talkDepends on the person
Night life:Fetish clubs, Dungeon clubs, Intimate gatherings in my home, Regular Bars, Movies

Sexual Interests

Sex toys:Anal beads, Butt plugs/probes, Cock ring, Dildos/Vibrators, Strap-ons
Size matterSometimes, depends on the person
"Off Limits":scat, blood, i'm not keen on spanking, caning, whips etc. not my kind of pain. I absolutely hate nipple clamps. Haven't come across much else that bothers me

Femdom Preferences

Intensity level:Messing with the Mind
I'm seeking:Long Term relationships with play
Desired Persona:Changes with my partners
I like to wear:Casual straight wear, Other
Ideal session:Ball torture... Squeezing, slapping, followed by crushing in a press and some electrics. If Mistress wants oral, I love to give it, if Mistress wants penetration, please make me use a strap on or a dildo gag. I also enjoy breath-play with plastic bags and hand smothering. Having Mistress kiss me through the plastic while I am struggling for air is one of the most erotic things ever.
Ultimate femdom fantasy:To live with and serve a Mistress that I love and who loves me. She is comfortable torturing me mentally and physically because she knows i need it and want her to do it.